The Queens Right

“Dungeon Rules and Protocols”

 

It is the intention of the organizers of The Queens Right to provide an environment for the practice of Safe, Sane, Consensual, and Risk Aware enjoyable Kinky, Fetish and BDSM/D/s play. Each player in the play space must take responsibility for his/her own behaviours and practices to ensure safety for him/herself as well as that of all others in the play space.

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• RESPECT THE DUNGEON MONITORS (DM’s): The DM staff can be identified with a glowing arm or leg band and they are designated to supervise, aide, protect the guests and to ensure that the rules are followed. If you disagree with a DM, discuss this with him/her quietly, and if the disagreement is not worked out, speak with the hosts/event managers.

Note: A list of DM’s on duty for the evening is posted at the DM station.

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• NO PHOTOGRAPHY/RECORDING/CELL PHONES:  If you do wish to take a photograph, you MUST speak directly to a DM or host/event manager for permission BEFORE pulling out the camera. If permission is granted, the photographer must be supervised and must be willing and able to delete any and all photos deemed unacceptable. If you need to make a call or text, do so at entry area of the house or outside in private. 

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• GENERIC SAFE WORDS are used for the safety of all players and to assist with the DM’s supervision at this event; RED means to stop immediately, YELLOW to slow down and please check in, GREEN feels great!

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• EDGE PLAY (fire, breathe, cutting, branding, piercing, consensual non-consent, loud, etc.) players are requested to discuss the particulars with the on-duty DM ahead of time to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary disruptions.

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• CLEANLINESS is paramount. You are expected to keep the play space equipment/furniture and play area clean. After your scene, THOROUGHLY clean up after yourself with the disinfectant items provided.  Use a DROPSHEET and/or SANITARY PAD if performing wax play, blood or cutting play, or any play where fluids are involved.  If performing Needle Play or Cutting, patrons should speak to a DM & obtain a sharps container and any other necessary sanitary items.

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• TIME OF USE: Be respectful of other players and do not spend more than ONE HOUR (including set-up and clean-up) on a station. If a player goes over that time, expect the DM to inform you & heed their direction. If the Dungeon becomes exceedingly busy, the DM may reduce the maximum playing time to 45 MINUTES (including set-up and clean-up) per piece of equipment.

Note: If 2 pieces of equipment are used in your scene, a maximum scene length of 30min is in effect.  3 pieces – 20 min, 4 pieces – 15min, etc. The purpose of these time limits is to allow everyone to have a turn on the equipment & to dissuade the monopolization of equipment by a players. It is the DM’s role to enforce this rule in the play space.

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• NO MEANS NO! respect personal limits and boundaries. If you continue to insist in any form; it is harassment, which may result in expulsion and/or permanent ban from the event.

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• DO NOT TOUCH things that do not belong to you, this includes people, personal toys, and equipment. In the same respect, if people are partially naked, or dress provocatively that is not an invitation for unsolicited touching. Be polite and ask permission. For more on this see other rules pages.

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• USE YOUR MANNERS: No unsolicited comments or physical interference of others’ scenes; do not interrupt a scene or try to join a scene in progress unless you have a direct and clear invitation by the Domme in charge of the scene. If you have questions about a technique, skill, or overall scene, wait until the scene is completed (including the aftercare period) before attempting a conversation or direct your questions to a DM.

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• KEEP YOUR DISTANCE: Do not crowd or walk through a scene and please observe in a quiet manner. Remember voyeurism means being invisible from a respectable distance and not affecting the scene.

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• KEEP YOUR VOICE DOWN! If you are in the play spaces observing or socializing, please be respectful of the scenes going on and keep your volume to a minimum.

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• GENITAL NUDITY and intimate sexual activities are permitted IN PLAY SPACES ONLY. Safe play practices are strongly encouraged! Full/genital nudity is not appropriate etiquette for the lounge space unless a presentation or CFnm event is taking place as directed by the event managers.

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• CONCERNS: If witness something or have a concern regarding the play philosophy (safe, sane, consensual or risk aware), please inform the DM without interrupting the scene.

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• RESTRICTED PLAY: Watersports/Toilet play are not permitted. Any play deemed dangerous or that may cause greivous harm is not permitted.